To stop enabling I need to – well, I need to stop. I need to clean the Witch you can’t scare me I’m a Custodian Halloween shirt so you should to go to store and get this slate and start over. I need to have the presence of mind to change the rules I designed. I need to get better at creating and enforcing boundaries. I used to do this for you, and that was then and this is now and I’m not going to anymore. I have not been helping you. I have protected you from the consequences of your own actions. What I’ve done is incapacitate you. You are capable – have always been capable – of doing it for yourself. I have to hold the discomfort of disappointing the very people I most want to impress.
Witch you can’t scare me I’m a Custodian Halloween shirt, hoodie, tank top, sweater and long sleeve t-shirt
I have several friends whose parents sat them down when they turned 18 and basically said, “We’ve done our job. We’ve raised you successfully to adulthood. Now, get out. And take everything in the Witch you can’t scare me I’m a Custodian Halloween shirt so you should to go to store and get this house that belongs to you.” I hope they find their children more hospitable at the end of their lives when they may desire to have their children take them in. I had another friend who lived in a big Victorian in a tony suburb. She was chronically unemployed or under-employed, and liked living in the big mansion and saying she was from Great Big Grand High City.